One of the great things about getting older, is enjoying your children—as adults. In the past, we have enjoyed the years of watching them grow. We praised their accomplishments, and lived through their mistakes. We gave them the best education we could, and hopefully taught them through example, all the good things in life, while trying to keep them from the evil influences of the world around us.
We are so blessed! All 3 of our children have grown up to be awesome additions to our world. They have all found their perfect life partner, too! And hopefully our family will continue to grow, and someday, who knows, one of our grandchildren might be “President”!!
Now our work is done. We no longer have to be “the bad guy” or the spoiler of the fun! Our years of being the teacher, the example, the authority, are done. Now instead, we can just be their friends. We can hang with them, go out with them and get silly with them, if we want! They are all wonderful adults and we look forward to our times together.
This past weekend we took a trip to MN to visit our youngest daughter Angela, and her fiancée, Nick. I have to say, we had a fantastic time. I am thinking that our family gatherings are like many others. When we get together, it is all about eating, drinking, and just enjoying each other and the time we have together. We don’t do anything spectacular, or fancy. Once and awhile we will go to a nice restaurant, but usually it is just a sandwich at the nearby sports bar, or sometimes, good old home cookin’. But dinner is always proceeded by cocktail hour. We all have our drink of choice, and of course you can’t have cocktails without putting out some snacks—Tomato Basil anyone??
Lately, we have added a new tradition to our adult family gatherings. I do believe that it was Nick that was the first one that asked me if I wanted to do a “shot”! In our mature adulthood, we don’t over do it, and we never slam shots if we are the driver! But we have enjoyed our “shots” together on more than one occasion. Sometimes other family members get in the act too. I am the lucky one though. We usually drink Tequila shots, and since that is my normal drink of choice, (tequila on the rocks with a lime) it just tastes sooooooo good!!! But this weekend, Nick and I actually did a whiskey shot, cus that is what he likes!!! I’m just saying—-even though he chilled the bottle, it still was no where near the great taste of the tequila—I rest my case!!

Nick and I enjoying our night cap!

Jerry’s 60th birthday party. In the back—(left) Maggie, my daughter-in-law (Kevin is taking the picture, he is the designated driver!!). (right) Angela. Front row, beside me is the guest of honor, followed by Deac, and then Nick (our sons-in-law).

I always seem to be right in the middle of the tequilla shots!!
I am a lucky woman! I not only have a wonderful family, but they are all great friends!! Cheers!